I don't remember ever being particularly competitive and this isn't about competing to get the best for yourself. I believe we've all got something to share and can help each other to reach what ever goals we have. I worked as an administrator in corporate world for a long time, being the only non technical person in the team so I thought I couldn't contribute to the bigger product. How wrong! We can listen, HEAR and then discuss what it is that niggles. I now work for myself (tweeting essentially for those who'd prefer spending their time on their passion/business) and will not write for anyone; I need to feel their passion and love their product to continue. I could but I don't. Life is for living, and enjoying what you do. It means finding your passion and using that to inspire yourself and others. The Campfire sounds like the ideal platform for that... best wishes to you all and I'd love to help!